The Upward Spiral of Gratitude Have you ever noticed that glow on someone who is grateful for all sorts of little things? They not only remember to say thank you for the smallest of kindnesses, they infuse everyday life with warmth and genuine appreciation. We...
Why is it that the person you fall in love with is often completely different from you? You like to amble through life smelling the roses, and your partner moves at the speed of light. You’re gregarious and easy going, and your spouse is quiet...
Ok, this post is not really about fighting, it’s more about conflict resolution, but let me just start with what NOT to do! Both men and women make some mistakes with conflict. Ladies, pay attention, now... First, know this: If there’s one thing that strikes...
The unthinkable has occurred. One spouse betrayed the other. It was an affair, a “fling,” and office romance, a one-night stand, or “just one of those things…” In any case, it was unforgiveable. Or was it? You might be surprised to learn how many couples...
Jane was delighted that she had the afternoon off work. She had carefully arranged for a colleague to cover her at the office so she could get some much-needed Christmas shopping in. Christmas was in two weeks and the family still didn’t have the tree...
More than any other reason, people come to me for help because of this one problem. If you guessed “Communication,” you’re right! It’s the most common issue that drives a wedge between people. Not feeling heard and understood turns an otherwise healthy relationship in to...